Why You Need Good and Bad Thoughts
Today I want to talk about thoughts and mental limitations.
To understand what a thought is, it’s first important to understand that you are your whole body. A thought is like a small ball of electricity within you.
These little balls of electricity can cause a lot of trouble, but they also have an important function.
Let’s say I wouldn’t have thoughts, and I would walk next to a viaduct. I could jump, because I wouldn’t have the limiting thought that it’s not possible or not safe to jump. So in this situation, thoughts are actually useful. You need them to know what is not possible.
But problems arise when a thought keeps you hostage. If your parents didn’t raise you well, chances are that you have a thought saying you are worthless. This is actually worse than a physical prison, because this thought can prevent you from going places. In that sense, the thought that you are worthless is a prison you carry around with you. No matter where you go, the thought goes with you. So this tiniest little thing keeps your whole big body hostage, which is dangerous.
What to do when you have these thoughts
You practice. The first step is acknowledging that you have very dark thoughts. This — and writing them down or talking about them — is actually 99% of the solution. The only thing that can go wrong is not understanding that you’re being held hostage, or being afraid of the dark thoughts themselves. I have a lot of thoughts. Some are good and some are bad. I work with them as if they are a material, like wool.
* I love anything that has to do with consciousness.
I even tried to get into a psychosis once (and succeeded). I’ve also had a lot of intense religious experiences.
Why Religion Has a Vital Function in Society
I am going to make one last attempt to explain religion and close the gap a little bit with “science” people.
I’m not writing this because I disrespect religious people — I think a lot of things in religion are genius.
Here we go.
The point of religion is that you believe something first, and then you move on to a “lighter” variant. In that sense, religion is like Santa Claus. Every kid loves Santa Claus. Nobody complains about Santa Claus afterwards. But the point isn’t whether he’s real or not (of course he is — wink wink).
Religion is like that too. The point is the experience, the believing, the understanding of what it feels like to fundamentally believe something — and then later understanding it’s more nuanced than that.
So, you let go of the higher-power aspect, but you still keep the presents.
The “presents” are the fruits of knowledge. Here is a list of religious-type experiences I’ve had:
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Energy as a force field around me — I still see that every night.
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The inside of your body appearing visible.
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Finding Adam’s apple (hint: it’s in your body).
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“Rebirth levels” of consciousness — experiencing your body and the earth as if it’s your very first step ever.
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Visions of beings from other planets visiting me.
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Visiting paradise (hint: you’re already there).
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Understanding what consciousness is.
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And many more.
Religion basically contains all the good things. It’s spectacular.
The problem is: when you’re not an adult yet (and I consider that at least 40 years old), you have no clue what you’re doing, and you are vulnerable to extreme viewpoints. Everyone who is 40+ is like, “It’s not completely religion, but also not completely scientific.” You get humbled. That’s why you can get wrecked from age 18–40. You think you know things (I was like that too), but no — you really don’t.
What Religion Used to Be
I grew up in a family where Sunday was a day everyone visited each other. Sunday was a day for others, not for yourself. It was also a day when shops were closed and you didn’t drive a car, since both are good for the environment. We lived very religiously. My great-grandmother always had church songs on the TV when we walked in on Sunday.
Do you know how often we talked about a higher power? Never. Maybe one or two family members believed (my great-grandmother definitely did), but besides that, nobody cared. In fact, most people couldn’t stand religion — while we were living super religiously ourselves.
Sunday was also a day of drawing, creating, making things. That’s what “creation” traditionally means.
My point is this: there is way more to life than “Is something real or not?” Religion and religious traditions are real — and important for a lot of people. A lot of people in science completely miss the point. The point is not who is right.
We live in a time where science and technology shine more than ever. Do you know who is more unhappy than ever? Everyone.
Religion used to play a big role in connecting people. Church is a place where you can stop the competition you have with others (and yourself) for three seconds, and everything just is. That gives peace. You listen to each other.
I am a 37-year-old man now. When I walk around, it feels like I’m living in the Matrix. All I see are people who can’t function as normal human beings. Everyone is disconnected (headphones everywhere). These may sound like the complaints of an old man, but you shouldn’t underestimate how much life has changed. There used to be far more contact between people. Now it’s normal to go to the gym with your phone and headphones and never talk to anyone. You don’t have to talk to anyone — but it’s still strange to disconnect yourself completely via technology.
Again: if science and technology are so smart, then why is everyone so lonely and depressed? Religion has a vital function in society.
I Want to Start With Religion, But I Don’t Know How
Please know that there are very smart people walking this earth who are neither in the 100% science camp nor in the 100% religion camp. You can take a moment of silence from time to time. You don’t need to be in a church to be in church. You also don’t need to believe in a higher power to be religious.
I come in good faith.
I am going to give you the greatest secret of our universe.
The inside of your body is visible.
But since life is multidimensional, your body makes the inside visible through different dimensions.
For instance: feelings, thoughts, the weight of your head, electricity in your brain (you can “grab” your brain on the inside of your skull and squeeze the electricity in it), emotional states like anger, small things, big things. My favorite one is to use my body only through tension (the tension you feel when you’re nervous).
When you add everything together, you can fly through your own body. You can fly from thought to thought, move from small to big, even access your own DNA. After a while, you get to know yourself from so many dimensions. You know all your thoughts, all your feelings — it’s a lot of fun. I have spent so many hours travelling through my own body, it’s unimaginable.
They already knew this in biblical times. There are a lot of references, like Adam’s apple (the thing in your throat). It’s a lot of fun.
“Quantum physics, classical mechanics, and religion can perfectly coexist. They exist in different dimensions,” says Mary.
Sometimes I hear people question reality as a whole. They say things like, “the moon doesn’t exist when we’re not looking at it.”
The moon does exist when we don’t look at it — it just doesn’t reveal itself, says Mary. It doesn’t spend any energy letting us know that it’s there when we’re not looking. It’s more like an energy saver.